If tears could wash away  pains, hurts and  longings....and wine  ... brings forgetfulness.....then, by all means drown in your sorrows...drain every drop of your emotions! Alas! That is but Wishful thinking....sober up, conquer your mountain!! The law of life decrees that the sooner, you look reality in the eye... and accept the inevitable, the earlier the storm will blow over; calm will descend and the sun will shine once more...